5 Steps To Attracting The One – Any Relationship You Desire Is Reflective Of The Relationship With Yourself


Another awesome video from Preston Smiles that will also hit home for many of you I feel.

I couldn’t NOT share this one, as this topic is so prevalent for everyone and comes up so much in my sessions with clients or conversations with friends where they are wanting support with relationships and being able to draw in that special someone.

Many go about things in backwards ways, don’t realize the undercurrents of their quest that are running the show, or don’t understand why they can’t be with someone they feel is the reflection of the “One” they would like to be with.

You must be your own “One” to be with another “One”.

Preston shares what being that means.

And, as he points out, it’s not just about romantic relationships, but you can utilize and tweak these steps to work for any relationship – business partners, friends, clients, etc. that you want to align yourself with.

And for some people, the “One” may mean different things…or you may have several of them throughout your life.

No matter how that is relative to you, make sure your “One” is foremost yourself.

The rest will fall into place after.

Although you may have heard these things, it takes several times to really get it sometimes. And then more time to actually put it into practice.

Remember practicing what you know is far more valuable than just saying you know it.

So here are some of those reminders again and Preston shares them so beautifully and makes it easy to understand.

About Tania Marie's Blog

Tania Marie is an international Reiki Master Teacher, Intuitive Energy Guide, Sound Channeler, Visionary Artist, and Author. With over 25 yearsโ€™ experience in healing arts and metaphysical studies, Tania inspires people globally to embody their essence, access creative empowerment, expand into more conscious awareness, and to harness their magick and imagination to create alchemy for living in harmony.

Posted on August 27, 2015, in Uncategorized and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 13 Comments.

  1. So on point!! I sent a similar video to my soul sister this morning and I was thinking of posting it today… she and I have been on a common path in this vein for a while now and sharing our experiences. Anyhow, I COMPLETELY agree with everything he says…whether my relationshop works out, staying or leaving, who I’m with, etc. is no longer what its about. My “soul mate” journey right now… is all about mating with my own soul. Even at work, all of my clients who have been not quite aligned with me have magically fallen away to be replaced with more clients who are! Great share, my dear!

    • on the synchronicity train again i see ๐Ÿ˜‰ both with you and preston…definitely feel all he shares is on point to my resonance too. sounds like you’re on a beautiful journey with yourself and experiencing the joys of it. so wonderful. โค

      • Synchronicity train, choose choo!! Preston is new to me, thank you for leaving a breadcrumb for me to explore more. Yes, the inner journey is wonderful ..not that it isn’t without bouts of resistance and waves of old emotional programming.
        One thought, you mention that many know this information but that it needs to be felt or embodied. I think that it’s important to note that really letting this truth in and focusing on self love requires the courage and willingness to sit with and really feel any heaviness or resistance that is sure to arise when old patterns are dissolving…and to do so with compassion.
        It isn’t easy, (especially if there are co dependent tendancies) yet, it is so worthwhile. I think that many filter out or brush off the information on “calling in the one” in favor of quick relief, anything or anyone to relieve the emotional pain that only wants to be felt and heard before it leaves us bright with love. If there wasn’t fear around journeying within, we would have never self-abandoned to begin with.
        I think it’s soothing for people to know that parting with the programming isn’t going to feel blissful at first, there might be some waves of discord to trust through. That’s how it feels for me, anyway. Lol, thanks for letting me trail off, I’m just excited with so much to say!! Xoxo!

      • glad you’re enjoying preston…he’s pretty on it ๐Ÿ˜‰ i totally agree with you and glad you brought that point to light some more, as i do feel it is key and the process you shared, important to how to be more conscious about actually being open to putting it in action. you’re right…it’s not easy always, but with practice it can become more natural and so starting somewhere now will help get us to that more natural flow with it. the longer we put off loving ourselves and journeying within, the longer we prolong the process. there’s bumps along the way, healing crises that take place, and walls we may hit, but continuing with the willingness to go a little bit with gentleness for ourselves will support that into being more attainable each day. thanks for sharing and expressing!! it’s good for moving the energy and helps others who have thoughts and questions, but don’t voice them. xoox! yay!

      • Yay! Just what I was thinking, I so enjoy when others open up discussion by sharing. Its so enriching. Xoxo Much love. Happy Pisces full moon ๐Ÿ’œ

      • so agreed! and thank you!!! as a pisces, i’m excited about this moon’s energy ๐Ÿ˜‰ xoox love and big hugs and magickal full moon blessings

  2. Reblogged this on Reiki Dawn and commented:
    this is something that Tania posted today, and I had been awake in the middle of the night thinking about (exact words) the one….beautiful synchronicity. thank you dear Tania Marie and Preston!

  3. I loooove this post and video! Trรจs TRรˆS inspirant Tania! Gratitude!

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